As of tonight, I am no longer a virgin. I know, GROSS, WE DON’T WANNA KNOW THAT KYLE. Keep reading, though, I’m not gonna talk about my experience or anything, because I think this proves a worthy point; If /I/ can do it, anyone can, so stop making excuses for not having a girlfriend or anything and realize you’re fucking awesome and there IS someone out there for you, regardless of your weight, gender, race, sexual preference, bland humor, geeky interests, anything. Everyone spends so much time trying to be perfect in their own eyes and fulfilling themselves by catering to the interests of the general public; but what you’re not seeing is the amazing things that even if you can’t, someone else will see it in you. You just have to be aware of that to be happy.
A lot of my friends always joke around all the time or are like “omg dude I just got laid l00l, why rnt U???” Well, I, and I’m sure some people who are reading this right now, never grew up in the mindset that I was enough for someone and there was never a good thing to see in me. It didn’t help I’ve always been overweight, bullied and put down for nearly my entire life. However, as I gather these achievements that may seem so insignificant to others, they resemble a much bigger meaning to me than I could possibly explain with my goofy self; it shows that I can make something out of myself, that there is someone genuinely LOVING to me outside my immediate family, that I can do things I never thought I’d ever achieve, that I’m worth something to someone.
So yeah. I say congrats on people who take this for granted and have always lived that sex was a thing they could get whenever, but for me, and I’m sure for plenty of others, this is something sacred, with significant meaning, that we could NEVER come to expect. It’s the physical beauty of love.